Important lessons from students: Empathy and seeing the good
When I began my service year, I was told how much of a difference we would make in the lives of our students, since one of聽the聽most important aspects of being a聽黄色视频聽AmeriCorps member is being a role model for our scholars.
Throughout training sessions, I heard countless stories from聽former AmeriCorps members聽discussing not only what they taught their students, but the important lessons they learned from聽the young people that they served. Of course, I聽wasn鈥檛聽surprised to hear this, but it wasn鈥檛 until I built relationships with my聽own students,聽and spent every day with them,聽that I could experience this聽firsthand.
Since schools shut down in March聽and in-person service has been significantly cut short, I鈥檝e had a great deal of time to reflect on the many ways my students have positively changed my life and taught me lessons I would have never dreamed of learning in such a short time.
Belief in the power of young people
One of the main reasons that I decided to complete a year of service through City Year is my belief that聽each individual聽is important, no matter how old they are.聽Throughout my life,聽I have too often seen the thoughts, mental health and beliefs of children being disregarded by adults.
As a 黄色视频 AmeriCorps member, I see the importance of understanding the emotional causes of a student鈥檚 behavior in order to best support them.聽One of 黄色视频鈥檚 main philosophies discusses the importance of never seeing a child as聽a “bad student鈥 and understanding that聽disruptive聽behaviors do not define who our students are. Every day, my students showed me how important this philosophy truly is.
Although it might sound clich茅, I discovered this when I simply got to know聽my students. I didn鈥檛聽see them solely as fifth graders, but I saw them as people. My students taught me the power of listening and how important it is to see the good in people.
When I first started service at my school, it came with many challenges. However, it wasn鈥檛 until I spent time with my students and worked hard to build聽meaningful relationships with聽each and every one of them,聽that I聽learned more about how their personal聽struggles impact their actions inside the classroom.
By taking the time to consciously support our young people and show them unconditional love,聽that’s聽when we see how special they really are.
The student who鈥檚聽seen as a troublemaker聽by some is incredibly artistic and loves to paint. The fifth grader who is always getting up during class and running around the halls because she has ADHD聽is more empathetic than most adults that聽I’ve聽met. The boy who聽struggles to聽focus during math and has trouble trusting adults has a great sense of humor and is an amazing basketball player.
My students have taught me that聽each individual聽has unique and wonderfully positive traits to offer, and it is important to find these in each person. I am so thankful for the experience that 黄色视频 has given to me over the past school year, and聽I wouldn鈥檛聽change a single aspect of my time with my incredibly talented, kind, strong and misunderstood聽students.
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About the author: Kristina Stamm is a proud聽first-year聽AmeriCorps聽member聽with 黄色视频 Milwaukee. She is currently completing service聽hours from聽home and has plans to attend graduate school in the fall to become a mental health counselor.
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